Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Knit Club Blankets

The last day of middle school is tomorrow, but I was able to go into the school today to show the kids the fruits of their labour ...

Introducing the first (I hope annual) Knit club blankets. I was able to make two small preemie sized blankets from the 18 squares I received (of those, I only fully knit five... I did have to complete a few). The blankets will be handed over to the Western Canada Oddball Blanket Society where they will be donated to the NICU at the Foothills Hospital here in Calgary. I'm incredibly proud of the kids that joined my club and look forward to next year (I've been asked to start a club in my daughter's elementary school as well... yikes!):





As I don't have parental permission (Except for Eli... I'm pretty sure his parent has approved my use of his image... I should get something signed), I can't show you the faces of the kids, but I thought this picture would work just as well..... My Knit club!


And on an unrelated note... Eli was awarded an "Outstanding Achievement in Math" certificate today! I'm so proud of him! Great Job Eli! You've come along way......








Monday, June 25, 2012

The Annual "My Kid is Awesome because he plays piano and you must listen to it" Post

Eli's fourth annual piano recital was last week. I was worried that we weren't going to have a recital this year because the music store where he had been taking lessons for the past 4 years suddenly closed in Mid-March and I had to find him a new teacher. Ultimately, I was glad this happened because I'm actually hearing him progress again. His other teachers let him take over and play whatever he wanted, which was all well and good, but it's difficult to progress in your skill when all you choose to play is video game music that you either play by ear or with downloaded sheet music off the internet....... His new teacher know how to play the game... she requires that they split the lesson... "you do 50% my way and then you can play Mario tunes" and he loves her.

So, without further ado.... Eli, playing "Journey by Train"... after which we had a discussion about when it's appropriate to state "Was it just me or did I get more applause than anyone else??"





Here are links to previous years' recitals... you know, if my child is just to cute for you to resist....

2009

2010

2011

Thursday, June 21, 2012

I'm Pissed...

Firstly, I'll apologize for the title of the post. I normally try to limit profanity on my blog (I save that for my closest friends, lucky them), but in this case, I feel it's entirely justified (and rather sad in that I called "pissed" profanity.... must work on using more piquant profanity for the future).

Secondly, I'll apologize for the lack of organization and probable tangents, random thoughts and lack of a point (along with my poor punctuation that is normally a part of my blog) that will be littered throughout this post...

This post is about knitting and more specifically a Cease and Desist letter (found in this article by the Gawker... the Ravelry link requires an account) that was sent to Ravelry last month ordering Ravelry to discontinue using the term "Ravelympics" for a competition which began with the Bejing Olympics in 2008 and continued with the Vancouver Olympics in 2010. This year would have marked the third "Ravelympics". An event where knitters from around the world enter competitions within Ravelry to better our skills while promoting, through camaraderie and friendly competition, the elite of the athletic world. Many of us feel that this is our way to also compete in the spirit of the Olympic Games and many more have only started watching the Olympics because they've joined the Ravelympics.

Apparently though, the USOC (United States Olympic Committee) feels that our event denigrates serious athletes . The following is a quotation directly from the letter:


"The USOC is responsible for preserving the Olympic Movement and its ideals within the United States.  Part of that responsibility is to ensure that Olympic trademarks, imagery and terminology are protected and given the appropriate respect.  We believe using the name “Ravelympics” for a competition that involves an afghan marathon, scarf hockey and sweater triathlon, among others, tends to denigrate the true nature of the Olympic Games.  In a sense, it is disrespectful to our country’s finest athletes and fails to recognize or appreciate their hard work."

This has set the knitting world on fire. Twitter is trending #ravelympics and knitting bloggers and other fibre artists are up in arms stating that they will boycott both the games AND the USOC sponsors (I won't be... I watch sports every two years.. Sumer and Winter Olympics... It's the only time I appreciate sports and I've loved the Olympics since before I started knitting.....) We, as knitters, are not necessarily angered about the trademark issue, if this is truly a matter of copyright and trademark issues, we can change the name of our games, but we do take offence to both the wording of the letter and the attack and insult to our chosen way to honour the Olympics and all it stands for. 

"For many, the Olympics represent the pinnacle of their sporting career.  Over more than a century, the Olympic Games have brought athletes around the world together to compete in an event that has come to mean much more than just a competition between the world’s best athletes.  The Olympic Games represent ideals that go beyond sport to encompass culture and education, tolerance and respect, world peace and harmony." (another quote from the letter... I didn't realize that knitting was so anti-"culture, education, tolerance, respect, world peace and harmony".... Those millions of knitters who craft for charity (including the Special Olympics!) are pure evil)

 And here is my first tangent.....

WHY is the world "Olympic" (and any derivations of the word) even trademarked??? I think that is on par with Trademarking the word "traffic jam" or "sports day" or enumerable other as events that have occurred throughout history. The actual Olympic games (Ie: London 2012, Vancouver 2010 etc. well as all images used for the Olympics) I understand... Those are specific events and images that belong to the Olympic committee of whichever country is organizing and the IOC,  but the original Olympics were created in Ancient Greece and the term "Olympic" is used world-wide for anything from mountain ranges to restaurants to sizes of swimming pools to yoghurt etc. According to this article: The USOC was granted the trademark in 1978 congressional act to take down the GAY Olympics. That isn't the last time the USOC has worked to make an organization change their name. If you google USOC and trademark, you can find everything from the Ferret Olympics being forced to be changed to Ferret Agility Trails to the Caveman style Ugh-lympics (here is a good article about a bunch of forced changes). There is no point other than WTF to the above statement... I'm not a lawyer and have no experience in such matters, but it seems to me to be a matter of common sense that the word "Olympics" should not be trademarkable  (I know it's not a word), but that all images and specific games should be. 

and back to why I'm pissed off..... I ruminated over the reason for my anger all of yesterday afternoon and evening, when it occurred to me, that the reason that I'm REALLY pissed off is because, once again...... I feel undervalued as a woman, a stay-at-home-mother and a fibre artist/crafter. That letter, insulting something in which I find enormous value and satisfaction as a human being, is the proverbial last straw.

1)  Women still do not have equal pay for equal work and that's if we can even get the promotion in the first place (How many CEOs are women??). Women can not even say the word "vagina" without getting a smack down and you can bet your ass that if a man had stood up and said a male version of the same thing, but replaced "vagina" with "penis" the entire male portion of the senate would have stood up and clapped...... 

2) As a stay at home mother, I also feel extremely undervalued. My choice (which, thanks to the hard work of stronger, better women before me, I can say is a CHOICE not an expectation), to stay at home to raise my children is not seen as real work. It is neither valued by the government, future employers (let's see how easily I get a good paying job when I enter the workforce after 20 years of staying at home),  nor by many working parents (and there are many other working parents who do value parenting regardless of how it's done and do a fantastic job in their own roles as breadwinners and parents.... it's all about choice and I don't give a crap about what your choice is, as long as you respect mine). I volunteer at both my children's schools enough to know this last statement is true... It is the parent volunteer who ensures that Mommy & Daddy have nice presents for occasions... It is the parent volunteer who ensures that children can go on field trips or is enriched in the classroom... it is the parent volunteer who ensures that the children have special lunch days and sports days and graduations and awards ceremonies and dances and knit club.... It is parent council (run by both working and SAHMs) who provides funding for smart boards and iPods and cameras for the classrooms and other "extras" not provided by the school board (that most other parents are not even AWARE are NOT provided by the school board... I know I didn't know before I became involved). It is the parent volunteers who run fundraising events for said council and the schools (and I know there are tons of working parents who take time off their jobs to volunteer and thank goodness they do,  but the vast majority of the volunteers are the SAHMs). I have been shocked by some of the comments I've heard said by some working parents. "I don't have to worry about potty training/manners/social skills etc. because the DAY HOME/school will do it for me".... "My child isn't learning to read and it's all the school/teacher's fault"  ..... " I send my child to school to do "insert learning/behavioural item here" so I don't have to"...... I have also been (for a very short time) a day home where my time was not valued I was treated very poorly by my "employer" because I clearly had nothing better to do than to take care of their child for 10 hrs a day for $40 (including food). What I do as a stay-at-home parent IS valuable, both to my own family and to yours.... don't put me down because of it and recognize that I also give kudos to those parents who work outside the home and are still fabulous parents... again, it's about choice and mine is just as valid as yours.

3) And finally, I feel undervalued as a fibre artist & crafter. Non-knitters often make comments like "I don't have time to knit" (how much TV do you watch?? That's when I knit) or "I don't have the patience to learn" (I wouldn't say patience is my own strongest character strength and if my then six year old ADHD son can knit a hat for himself...  you really have no excuse... be honest and say you don't WANT to learn). I have often been asked to knit something on commission and have been offered the generous amount of $50 if I would please knit "that sweater/gloves/hat/scarf/shawl you are wearing" and when informed that I can't even buy the yarn for that amount... well, people's expressions are pretty transparent .... The Yarn Harlot has done several posts about the undervaluing of the perceived "women's work" crafts,  knitting in particular (and how we undervalue ourselves as knitters in the guise of "Knitters are nice") and she is a far better writer than I, so I will quote her from this post:

"This is an interesting thing to do, considering that we so often complain that we aren't taken seriously as artists or skilled people, and that knitting remains largely undervalued. (We're back to the excellent larger question about women in general again, but I'm resisting.) This desire to make everything we do seem easy, our uncomfortableness with the recognition of our talents, it's a unique approach. Do you think this is something other people do with their skills? Do lawyers say "It was nothing"? Nope. They say "That's $250 an hour. It took me a long time to learn how to do this." How about National League Hockey players? No way. They cop to working out and practicing hours and hours a day. Artists don't say "It was easy." they tell you how they got there, and then because they have respect for their efforts...so do we."


And this blog post sums it up even better.. seriously, go read it.... I was going to get some quotes, but the whole post is worth reading.... 


Basically, the point of this whole post is that it doesn't seem to matter how far I think we've come as a society with our attitudes towards women.... All it takes is one Man (intentional capitalization) writing a legal document to remind me that we have a lot further to go yet...... 


as a final note... it is not my intention in any way to disparage working parents. I hope I was clear about that in my number 2 (ha! potty humour is always fun). There are just as many SAH parents who are crappy as  there are working parents, but I know you aren't one of them...... 

Edited to add: The USOC has apologized for giving offence....  

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

I know you want to see the finished product

Man! Have I been in a funk lately! Not sure if I had a touch of something or just localized blech, but I woke up on Saturday to a much cheerier disposition (although Dale might dispute this) and we finally finished our front garden (maybe 98% finished, I still have some plants to plant and a few decorative items to buy and place, but mostly... it's done!). I looks so pretty that I thought I should show it off.... I did a post about the "before" and "mid-way" portions a month or so ago, but here is a before shot if you're too lazy (as I would be) to go back and check.





And now....


I think it's much better and as time goes and things grow it will look even nicer....

Here are some close ups of the rock garden (or smurf/fairy garden as my neighbour's daughter calls it)




Eventually there will be moss and creeping thyme between all of the pavers

Isn't this pretty?


We also made our own stepping stone out of concrete when Dale expanded the Driveway.... I wanted to draw in the expansion, but how do you take that with you??

And here are a few pictures of the backyard. Lots of planters


Gladiolas, my first time growing these...



The garden box.... it's looked exactly like this for a month.... We need some SUN!


One of the two tomato plants that I started in the house in January... It's HUGE!




And the main garden bed... which gets prettier every year...


I also made a new birdbath. I used a glass plate that I had made several years ago when I experimented with glass fusion. The plate is really pretty, but not very functional. I used a bit of chain and a hanging basket holder... it's perfect!




My MIL paints rocks to look like flowers and houses... They look fantastic in the garden, tucked under plants like little fairy houses....




Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Knitting Fail.... sort of

A week or so ago, I helped Chey find her outfit for the day (translate: I made her wear a dress.... to school.. the absolute horror) and came to realize that almost every knit item in her closet is too small. Darn, right? I must now knit my daughter a cute little cardigan that she can wear with her dresses and skirts... my life is rough, eh?

Being that I am an incredible mother who always puts her children first (I had a rough day yesterday, give this one to me, OK?), I immediately went through my queue on Ravelry and chose the pattern and yarn for a cute, cabled, short-sleeved, cardigan. The chosen garment pattern was "Sea Princess" By Elena Nodel and the yarn was a cotton and silk blend by Misti Alpaca in a colour called Orchid, which Chey immediately took an intense dislike to.... "It's PINK! I hate pink! It's too GIRLY!"

This should have been my first warning that this project might not go the way it was intended. I persevered, however, and managed to convince Chey that the yarn was more purple than pink (slightly more acceptable, but not perfect) and cast on... The astute among you will notice that I never mentioned a gauge swatch. That would be because (don't tell anyone, particularly my knit club students), I NEVER knit a gauge swatch for a child's item of clothing. I normally pick a size larger and yarn & needles appropriate for the pattern and go... This always works out because if my gauge is tighter (i.e.: smaller), the sweater will fit because I chose a larger size and if my gauge works out the other way... kids grow and it will fit, eventually. Besides skipping this step means that  I've saved myself the 15 minutes of time (OK, more like 1 hr including washing and drying, which we should all do, right?!) it took to knit the swatch (knitters will understand the absurd nature of that statement... 15 minutes vs. many, many hours... time well spent when it comes to saving your arse because you took the time to knit the swatch, let me tell you)

Back to my story... I cast on the sweater, organized the knitting charts (one for each front, each sleeve and the back) and went to work. After several inches of smooth sailing, I checked the pattern to see when I should start the armholes (it is worked top-down) and noticed that I had made a fairly large mistake, or rather I made two mistakes, a largish one and a larger one. The first mistake was that I missed a cable cross (it was two crosses, actually)  several rows back, but as I had missed the same cable crosses on the matching front, I decided I could live with the error. That's when I noticed the larger error.. I PUT THE WRONG FRACKING CABLES IN THE WRONG FRACKING PLACE(S).... GAH!!!! Instead of placing the arm cables, you know, on the arms where they belong... I had put them on the fronts and put the cables for the fronts on the arms..... Total rookie mistake (or maybe a mistake of the too self assured??). Fortunately, the cables were easy to fudge and I was able to switch charts and blend the different cables into their correct locations. After a good smack in the head and some breathing exercises (I wish I drank alcohol at times like these... as an excuse for the error and a nerve steadying tonic, but alas, I do not drink), I worked out how to blend and exchange the charts and started back to work. The cardigan was going quite quickly, although I'll admit, not as quickly as I would have thought for a child's cardigan and eventually I came to the end of the body and cast it off.... For some reason, this is when I noticed that it seemed a tad.... large

Remember that I didn't do a gauge swatch?? Well, my thumb to the nose directed at the knitting gods has rebounded.... Gauge for the pattern: 19st=4"... my gauge: 15sts=4".... that's nearly 22% larger.... 22% larger on a cardigan that was already going to be fairly large???

That would be a sweater, not for my six year old daughter, but for me....... and it's even big on me...

I probably should have noticed sooner and if anyone points out the mis-crossed cable (some were done on purpose), I will hunt you down.



still needs buttons and to be blocked



As a final flip of the bird from knitting karma? Chey is right ticked off that she is not getting the pink cardigan that she wanted.......

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Sometimes all it takes is a picnic

to remind us how fun life is.....

We had a great family weekend. We drove out (in the rain, once we've made a decision it's very difficult to stop us) to Kananaskis (the end closer to us) and had a picnic at Forget-me-not Pond.



Setting up a tarp in the rain

I love it when the kids take the dogs.... it's almost off-leash

This was purely a coincidence, albeit a funny one.... she isn't a food hound.... 

Poor Kikx was frozen and spent some goodly time in my jacket
(much nicer than those hot shots for mittens, let me tell you)

Marshmallows and a pose
Big dogs just don't understand why they shouldn't be lap dogs...... 


and once ONE is up there.... the rest must share..... 

It cleared up for a while in the afternoon....


The kids had so much fun, they didn't want to leave... Which was fine by us, we arrived home at bedtime.....

Saturday was so nice, we decided to repeat the picnic on Sunday.... via bike this time.



It is hard to take self portraits on a gravel bike path
with a wiggly six-year old on the back of the back... just sayin'


Don't tell Eli, but I think he forgot to play video games this weekend....